Sunday night Alyssa and I picked up Dave from base! He was gone for almost 6 weeks but is now back safe and was just in time for my birthday the day after. I had Alyssa walk to him (with me holding one hand). We couldn't tell if she actually remembered him or not but she willingly went to him. I was just worried since it was 845 pm (her bedtime) that she would be tired and only want me. This is often a time she won't let other people hold her, so I was really worried since I knew it would hurt Dave's feelings. But she just looked at him for a few seconds and then gave him a big smile. And she soon remembered the game of ripping his patches off his flight suit. He spent the whole next day with us and he put her down for both of her naps and he even spent some alone time with her when I went to get my 1 hour birthday massage :). He's a little rusty on changing a diaper since every one hes put on so far ends up falling off while she crawls around, but thats okay. He can't get over how much more active she is now. When he was making me breakfast on my bday he was like 'babe you have to take her I cant watch her and do this at the same time, she wont stay still'. Welcome to my life the past 6 weeks. It is getting really hard to get anything done while watching her. One second she's right next to you and the next she's in the dishwasher or a cabinet or climbing stairs. He loves that she is more playful now. You don't have to worry about supporting her much, he can hang her upside down, flip her around, etc (within moderation of course). And she loves it all, shes a little monkey.
As far as walking goes, its just a waiting game. She has the physical capability for sure, she just lacks the confidence. She can stand by herself, climb stairs, and walk anywhere as long as one hand is touching something. When she walks holding your hand she doesn't really even use it to help her balance or anything, its just security. So she could be walking today, maybe a month, only she knows at this point.
It is so great to have Dave back, it was a really lonely 6 weeks. Having Alyssa made it less lonely but since she can't talk back there were some days where I never held a face to face conversation. So I joined the gym which has childcare so I could get some 'me' time.
As far as pictures go, I really don't have any to post. While Dave was gone, I took pretty much all of my pictures on my phone so I could send them to him on a daily basis. And I don't think theres a way to get the pictures off my phone to the computer. But I'm sure I'll take lots of us here in the next month since August is going to be super busy. We have a wedding to go to, we are visiting Dave's family in MO, and we are going to take some leave to spend with just the 3 of us.
Not sure if I've already said this but Alyssa's bday party is now Sept 12th! I can't wait, I went and bought some party stuff last week.